I’ve been gathering evidence against her for 18 months and am getting a pretty large stack. Dh wants to talk to his mother and makes certain she is physically ok, but we aren’t even certain where they are living now. Right now we are waiting for her to make her next move. Legally she can’t touch the money. If she does then she’ll find out real quick that those bright orange jumpsuits don’t look good with her dyed red hair.