checking on her sil would never be suspect of reporting back to us, but now if they move… or have moved I’ve not had a report on dmil’s physical condition in aobut two weeks. I need to contact my ‘snitch” and have him check on her. We may have to go the legal route if we lose that contact. So far she seems to be doing no physical harm to dmil. If she ever did I’d have the law there faster than you can say COPS! But she’s smarter than that. She doesn’t want to “kill the golden goose” so to speak.